Kuxi ɣaɣla si nye be woase le wo ɖokui me be ‘wowɔ dɔ fũu akpa eye womexea fetu na ye o’ .

Kuxi Ɣaɣla si le Sese le ame ɖokui me be ‘wowɔ dɔ fũu akpa eye womexe fetu sue aɖeke na ye o’

Le ame geɖe gome la, nyagbɔgblɔ "dɔwɔwɔ fũ kple fetu si womexea fe na o" va zu egbegbe dɔwɔwɔ ƒe agbenɔnɔ ƒe mantra si ŋu ɖeɖi te. Zi geɖe la, woɖea asi le eŋu be enye xexeame katã ƒe nyatoƒoetoto, si nye gaƒoƒo geɖe akpa ƒe sɔsɔ bɔbɔe aɖe ɖe dɔlar ʋɛ aɖewo ko ta. Gake kuxi aɖe si de to wu, si gblẽa nu le ame ŋu wu la le dziɖeleameƒo sia si le gota gome te: tiatiawɔblɔɖe kple eme kɔ nyuie ƒe tsɔtsrɔ̃ ɖe ɖoɖo nu. Menye dɔa ƒe agba alo fetu si woxɔna le wo ɖokui si ɖeɖekoe nye nya ŋutɔŋutɔ o—nuto si me zitɔtɔ le ye hea wo vɛ, afisi agbagbadzedze va zua nusi womate ŋu akpɔ o, ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi me mekɔna o, eye dɔwɔlawo sena le wo ɖokui me abe aŋɔ siwo le mɔ̃ si me ɖoɖo mele o me ene. Ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi ɣaɣla siae nye nusi ɖea agbenyuinɔnɔ ɖa ŋutɔŋutɔ eye wòxea mɔ na dzidziɖedzi, na amewo kple dɔwɔƒe siwo wowɔa dɔ na siaa.

Vomaɖemaɖe ƒe susumanɔmee tsɔtsɔ sɔ kple Ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi ƒe Nyateƒetɔ

Ne ƒuƒoƒowo se le wo ɖokui me be yewowɔ dɔ wògbɔ eme la, nusi wosusuna enumake enye be wowɔa dɔ nyuie. Ke hã, "vovo" mesɔ kple "dɔwɔwɔ nyuie o." Kuxi ɣaɣla lae nye ŋusẽ gbogbo si wogblẽna ɖe nya siwo ƒo xlãe ƒe tɔtrɔ, nyatakakawo didi, kple dɔwɔwɔ ƒe ɖoɖo siwo me zitɔtɔ le dzi kpɔkpɔ to dɔwɔnu siwo me kadodo mele o ƒe hatsotso vovovowo dzi—Slack gbedasi siwo kaka, e-mail ka siwo woŋlɔ be, kple agbalẽvi siwo do xoxo. Ðoɖomawɔmawɔ sia fia be dɔsesẽwɔwɔ vavãtɔ gɔ̃ hã ate ŋu ase le eɖokui me be viɖe aɖeke mele ye ŋu o elabena kadodo si le eŋu kple asitsatsa me tsonu ŋutɔŋutɔwo dome do viviti. Amewo mete ŋu kpɔa alesi woƒe gbesiagbe ŋeŋe kpena ɖe nɔnɔmetata gãtɔ ŋu o, si wɔnɛ be "fetu si womexea fe na o" ƒe seselelãme nyea ŋudzedzemakpɔmakpɔ ɖe dɔwɔwɔ si womekpɔna o ŋu ƒe dzesi.

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Ga ƒe fexexe nye asixɔxɔ ƒomevi ɖeka ko. Bubue nye eme kɔ: mɔkpɔkpɔ siwo me kɔ, dɔwɔwɔ siwo woate ŋu akpɔ, kple ŋkuléle ɖe ame ƒe dɔwo kple dɔwɔƒea ƒe taɖodzinuwo dome tẽ. Ne eme kɔ alea meli o la, aɖi ƒe nya si me mekɔ o va nɔa anyi. Wogblẽa dɔwɔlawo ɖi wobiaa wo ɖokui be: "Nukatae mele esia wɔm?" "Esiae nye nu vevitɔa?" "Ðe nye dɔa le vevie ŋutɔŋutɔa?" Gazazã sia nana amewo sena le wo ɖokui me vevie be womedea asixɔxɔ ye ŋu o, eɖanye fetu ka kee woxɔna o. Ehea nyametsotsowɔwɔ ƒe ɖeɖiteameŋu, vodada ƒe agbɔsɔsɔ si dzina ɖe edzi, kple dekɔnu si me dzotsitsi nye nusi bɔ vɛ. Menye dzobibi koe ga si wògblẽna ɖe eŋu o; enye aɖaŋuɖoɖo ƒe tsitretsitsi, esime nu yeyewo dodo ɖe ŋgɔ le axadzi le gbesiagbe dzrewɔwɔ ta.

ƒe nyawo "Ðeɖiteameŋu ƒe atike menye ɖiɖiɖeme ɣesiaɣi o. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ɖoɖowɔwɔe. Zi geɖe la, seselelãme si nye be wowɔ dɔ fũu akpa la nyea seselelãme be yebu le dɔa me, ke menye be yeƒe lãme gblẽ o."

Tɔtrɔ Ðe Tɔtɔ teƒe kple Ðoɖo si Wowɔ Ðekae

Nuɖoɖo ƒe mɔnu sia kpɔa kuxi ɣaɣla la gbɔ tẽ:

ƒe nyawo
• Enaa Dɔwɔwɔ dzena: Agbagbadzedze megabuna le inbox alo kpekpewo me o; wokplɔe ɖo eye wotsɔe do ƒome kple taɖodzinuwo.
• Ewɔa Nu Tsitsiwo Le Eɖokui Si: Asidɔwo, siwo wogbugbɔna wɔna dzi ɖeɖe kpɔtɔ naa sidzedze ƒe ŋusẽ naa ablɔɖe dɔ siwo ŋu gɔmesese le si woxea fe na amewo ŋutɔŋutɔ be woawɔ.
• Enaa Agbagbadzedze Sɔna Kple Emetsonuwo: Ne amesiame te ŋu kpɔ alesi eƒe dɔwo ɖua nu ɖe taɖodzinu gãwo me la, seselelãme si nye be "woxe fetu sue" na ye la trɔna yia seselelãme si nye be wotsɔ ga de dzidzedzekpɔkpɔ ɖekae me.
• Enaa Ŋusẽ Le Micromanages teƒe: Dɔwɔwɔ siwo me kɔ kple nyatakaka siwo ŋu woate ŋu ake ɖo naa ƒuƒoƒoa me tɔwo kpɔa ɖokuisinɔnɔ be woakpɔ kuxiwo gbɔ eye woƒe emetsonuwo nanye wo tɔ.

Tso Dzikudodo dzi Yi Ŋugbedodo dzi

"Dɔwɔwɔ fũu akpa kple fetu si womexea fe na o" ƒe seselelãme gbɔ kpɔkpɔ bia be woawɔ nu ayi ŋgɔ wu nusi le gotagome. Ebia be woaɖɔ dɔwɔwɔ ƒe nɔnɔme si hea seselelãme mawo vɛ ɖo. To nuƒolanɔƒe si wɔ ɖeka abe Mewayz ene dodo ɖe ŋgɔ me la, asitsalawo mewɔa nu geɖe wu dɔwɔwɔ wòanɔ bɔbɔe o—wogbugbɔa kadodoŋusẽ si le agbagbadzedze, dzesidede, kple asixɔxɔ dome la ɖona. Wotsɔa zitɔtɔ ƒe adzɔ ɣaɣla la ɖɔlia ɖoɖo ƒe mama si wokpɔna. Le eme kɔ yeye sia me la, dɔwɔwɔ gaɖoa eƒe taɖodzinu, nudzɔdzɔwo nyea nusi ŋu ɖikeke mele o, eye fexexe—ga kple susu siaa—se le eɖokui me be esɔ le dzɔdzɔme nu. Nusi dona tso emee nye tɔtrɔ tso dzikudodo kpoo ƒe dekɔnu me yi ɖe nuwɔwɔ veviedodotɔe ƒe dekɔnu me, afisi amewo sena le wo ɖokui me be yewowɔ dɔ wòsɔ eye wode asixɔxɔ yewo ŋu wòsɔ.

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Kuxi Ɣaɣla si le Sese le ame ɖokui me be ‘Wowɔ dɔ wògbɔ eme eye womexe fetu na ye o’

Le ame geɖe gome la, nyagbɔgblɔ "dɔwɔwɔ fũ kple fetu si womexea fe na o" va zu egbegbe dɔwɔwɔ ƒe agbenɔnɔ ƒe mantra si ŋu ɖeɖi te. Zi geɖe la, woɖea asi le eŋu be enye xexeame katã ƒe nyatoƒoetoto, si nye gaƒoƒo geɖe akpa ƒe sɔsɔ bɔbɔe aɖe ɖe dɔlar ʋɛ aɖewo ko ta. Gake kuxi aɖe si de to wu, si gblẽa nu le ame ŋu wu la le dziɖeleameƒo sia si le gota gome te: tiatiawɔblɔɖe kple eme kɔ nyuie ƒe tsɔtsrɔ̃ ɖe ɖoɖo nu. Menye dɔa ƒe agba alo fetu si woxɔna le wo ɖokui si ɖeɖekoe nye nya ŋutɔŋutɔ o—nuto si me zitɔtɔ le ye hea wo vɛ, afisi agbagbadzedze va zua nusi womate ŋu akpɔ o, ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi me mekɔna o, eye dɔwɔlawo sena le wo ɖokui me abe aŋɔ siwo le mɔ̃ si me ɖoɖo mele o me ene. Ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi ɣaɣla siae nye nusi ɖea agbenyuinɔnɔ ɖa ŋutɔŋutɔ eye wòxea mɔ na dzidziɖedzi, na amewo kple dɔwɔƒe siwo wowɔa dɔ na siaa.

Vomaɖemaɖe ƒe susumanɔmee tsɔtsɔ sɔ kple Ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi ƒe Nyateƒetɔ

Ne ƒuƒoƒowo se le wo ɖokui me be yewowɔ dɔ wògbɔ eme la, nusi wosusuna enumake enye be wowɔa dɔ nyuie. Ke hã, "vovo" mesɔ kple "dɔwɔwɔ nyuie o." Kuxi ɣaɣla lae nye ŋusẽ gbogbo si wogblẽna ɖe nya siwo ƒo xlãe ƒe tɔtrɔ, nyatakakawo didi, kple dɔwɔwɔ ƒe ɖoɖo siwo me zitɔtɔ le dzi kpɔkpɔ to dɔwɔnu siwo me kadodo mele o ƒe hatsotso vovovowo dzi—Slack gbedasi siwo kaka, e-mail ka siwo woŋlɔ be, kple agbalẽvi siwo do xoxo. Ðoɖomawɔmawɔ sia fia be dɔsesẽwɔwɔ vavãtɔ gɔ̃ hã ate ŋu ase le eɖokui me be viɖe aɖeke mele ye ŋu o elabena kadodo si le eŋu kple asitsatsa me tsonu ŋutɔŋutɔwo dome do viviti. Amewo mete ŋu kpɔa alesi woƒe gbesiagbe ŋeŋe kpena ɖe nɔnɔmetata gãtɔ ŋu o, si wɔnɛ be "fetu si womexea fe na o" ƒe seselelãme nyea ŋudzedzemakpɔmakpɔ ɖe dɔwɔwɔ si womekpɔna o ŋu ƒe dzesi.

Emekɔkɔ ƒe Gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔ kple Eƒe Gazazã

Ga ƒe fexexe nye asixɔxɔ ƒomevi ɖeka ko. Bubue nye eme kɔ: mɔkpɔkpɔ siwo me kɔ, dɔwɔwɔ siwo woate ŋu akpɔ, kple ŋkuléle ɖe ame ƒe dɔwo kple dɔwɔƒea ƒe taɖodzinuwo dome tẽ. Ne eme kɔ alea meli o la, aɖi ƒe nya si me mekɔ o va nɔa anyi. Wogblẽa dɔwɔlawo ɖi wobiaa wo ɖokui be: "Nukatae mele esia wɔm?" "Esiae nye nu vevitɔa?" "Ðe nye dɔa le vevie ŋutɔŋutɔa?" Gazazã sia nana amewo sena le wo ɖokui me vevie be womedea asixɔxɔ ye ŋu o, eɖanye fetu ka kee woxɔna o. Ehea nyametsotsowɔwɔ ƒe ɖeɖiteameŋu, vodada ƒe agbɔsɔsɔ si dzina ɖe edzi, kple dekɔnu si me dzotsitsi nye nusi bɔ vɛ. Menye dzobibi koe ga si wògblẽna ɖe eŋu o; enye aɖaŋuɖoɖo ƒe tsitretsitsi, esime nu yeyewo dodo ɖe ŋgɔ le axadzi le gbesiagbe dzrewɔwɔ ta.

Tɔtrɔ Ðe Tɔtɔ teƒe kple Ðoɖo si Wowɔ Ðekae

Tso Dzikudodo dzi Yi Ŋugbedodo dzi

"Dɔwɔwɔ fũu akpa kple fetu si womexea fe na o" ƒe seselelãme gbɔ kpɔkpɔ bia be woawɔ nu ayi ŋgɔ wu nusi le gotagome. Ebia be woaɖɔ dɔwɔwɔ ƒe nɔnɔme si hea seselelãme mawo vɛ ɖo. To nuƒolanɔƒe si wɔ ɖeka abe Mewayz ene dodo ɖe ŋgɔ me la, asitsalawo mewɔa nu geɖe wu dɔwɔwɔ wòanɔ bɔbɔe o—wogbugbɔa kadodoŋusẽ si le agbagbadzedze, dzesidede, kple asixɔxɔ dome la ɖona. Wotsɔa zitɔtɔ ƒe adzɔ ɣaɣla la ɖɔlia ɖoɖo ƒe mama si wokpɔna. Le eme kɔ yeye sia me la, dɔwɔwɔ gaɖoa eƒe taɖodzinu, nudzɔdzɔwo nyea nusi ŋu ɖikeke mele o, eye fexexe—ga kple susu siaa—se le eɖokui me be esɔ le dzɔdzɔme nu. Nusi dona tso emee nye tɔtrɔ tso dzikudodo kpoo ƒe dekɔnu me yi ɖe nuwɔwɔ veviedodotɔe ƒe dekɔnu me, afisi amewo sena le wo ɖokui me be yewowɔ dɔ wòsɔ eye wode asixɔxɔ yewo ŋu wòsɔ.